This blog post is written based off the transcript from my podcast episode. Neville Goddard was a mystic who taught about the Law of Assumption—the idea that our reality is built on our assumptions and beliefs. He taught the world is a mirror, reflecting back to us what we hold to be true internally.
Last week, I discussed self-observation, which is the first step in this process. If you missed it, I recommend going back to that before continuing here, because today we’re building on that foundation by talking about your aim.
This is essentially the process of making a plan, setting a goal, and intentionally shifting toward the version of yourself that you truly want to be.
Who Are You Becoming?
Neville says,
Having discovered through an uncritical observation of your reactions to life a self that must be changed, you must now formulate an aim. That is, you must define the one you would like to be instead of the one you truly are in secret.
This is a powerful concept. You have to decide who you want to be.
Your identity—who you see yourself as—is what shapes your reality. To put this in simple terms, think of it as defining yourself by a specific state:
Someone who is loved vs. someone who is ignored
Someone who is successful vs. someone who is always struggling
Someone who is lucky vs. someone who is constantly unlucky
Your brain works in a way that reinforces whatever identity you claim. When you say, “I am lucky,” your mind starts to filter reality in a way that proves this true. You find great parking spots, stumble upon unexpected money, or have little serendipities show up in your life.
Your brain actively searches for proof of what you believe. This is because of something called the Reticular Activating System (RAS), which acts as a filter, determining what information gets through and what gets ignored.
If you tell yourself, “I’m unlucky,” your brain will find evidence to support that too. It’s not that more bad things are happening to you—it’s that you’re not noticing the good because your mind is focused on proving itself right.
Choosing Your Aim Consciously
Once you recognize this, you can start making intentional choices.
Neville tells us:
With this aim clearly defined, you must throughout your conscious waking day notice your every reaction in regard to this aim.
This means you need to monitor your thoughts, beliefs, and behaviors and ask yourself: Does this align with the version of myself that I am becoming?
For example, if your aim is to be someone who is confident and self-assured, but you find yourself shrinking in conversations, doubting your worth, or avoiding opportunities, that’s your cue to shift. You don’t beat yourself up about it—you simply redirect. You remind yourself, I am becoming a confident person, and you start making micro-adjustments to reflect that.
One of my favorite ways to think about this is by considering your aura. I once had a friend tell me, “I really don’t like the version of myself that I am right now. I want to start doing things that improve my mood and my aura.”
And I loved that he used that word—aura. Because your aura is the energy you radiate, and that energy comes from within. When you change how you see yourself, your aura shifts, and the world responds accordingly.
The Secret Nature of Your Transformation
Neville adds an interesting phrase: “Instead of the one you truly are in secret.”
Why does he say in secret? Because transformation happens internally first. No one else has access to the private conversations happening inside your mind. They don’t know the beliefs you hold about yourself unless you reveal them. And this is why your work in defining your aim is so crucial—because you are the only one who can decide who you truly are.
So today, I challenge you: Define your aim. Get specific. Who are you becoming? And then, start noticing the ways your current self aligns—or doesn’t align—with that version. Your transformation begins in the quiet decisions you make every single day.
How are you choosing to redefine yourself starting today?
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